Today's blog was written by M.E. Anders, a former member of another controversial group. As with all of my guest bloggers, the opinions and statements of the guest do not necessarily reflect my own beliefs or opinions. Please read with an open mind and feel free to join the discussion by leaving a comment.
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M.E.
Anders’ life reads like a tale of escape from a modern-day
Jonestown. Born the preacher’s kid of a burgeoning fundamentalist
society, M.E. battled critical thinking as the unforgivable sin.
Mining those experiences for storytelling, M.E. Anders pens
psychological tales exploring the difficult questions of the human
condition.These sagas excite the mind and stop the heart. Weaving
webs of twisting plots are her specialty, horror tempered by
mind-bending drama. Her passion is to shed light where all is
darkness. To bring hope to those living in shadows. Fiction and fact
blur seamlessly into her gripping thriller novels.
What
Makes a Cult a Cult
What
images come to mind when you hear the word, “cult”? For me, it’s
a sickening series of images from the Jonestown massacre. Though
cults come in various types, I will be discussing what characterizes
a religious cult in this article.
“CULT
- Any group which has a pyramid type authoritarian leadership
structure with all teaching and guidance coming from the
person/persons at the top. The group will claim to be the only way to
God; Nirvana; Paradise; Ultimate Reality; Full Potential, Way to
Happiness etc, and will use thought reform or mind control techniques
to gain control and keep their members.
This
definition covers cults within all major world religions, along with
those cults which have no OBVIOUS religious base such as commercial,
educational and psychological cults. Others may define these a little
differently, but this is the simplest to work from.”
I. Behavior
Control
II. Information
Control
III. Thought
Control
IV. Emotional
Control
Let’s
examine each of these components to discover what makes a cult a
cult.
Behavior
Control
Cults
are not necessarily isolated compounds in the middle of nowhere where
members are not permitted to leave the property. Modern cults are
clever in their attempts to control their members. Manipulating
members’ behavior is their clever tactic. Each one of these aspects
could be present within a cult.
Cult
members may experience strict dress codes, restricted food choices,
limited sleep hours, and financial dependence upon the leadership.
Major
time commitments for indoctrination sessions take precedence over
free time.
All
major decisions should be run by the leadership staff.
Group
think is the standard of excellence. Individual thought that differs
from the group is punished.
Trust
and obey is a common theme in behavior control.
An
example of behavior control from my religious cult, the Independent
Fundamental Baptist
movement http://fallenfromgrace.net/2011/06/20/what-is-an-ifb-church,
would be that strict dress codes were imposed upon both male and
female members, but especially females. We were forced to undergo
surprise “dress checks” where one of the female leaders would
examine us individually from head to toe. If our outfit did not meet
their lengthy list of modesty requirements, then they issued us a
demerit slip. This forbad us from attending classes until we changed
our outfit and had our appearance re-approved.
2. Information
Control
Cults
are masters at manipulating the information their members receive
about the outside world. The leaders consider themselves to be
filters for the “worldly” infiltration of evil intent upon
destroying their members’ lives. This control is exhibited in the
following ways.
Information
may be forcefully protected and held back from common knowledge.
Any
access to outsiders’ information is preached against and often
punished severely.
Leaders
control who gets to know what about the inner workings of the group.
Members
are usually sent out in pairs or groups when leaving the campus to
prevent contamination from the world.
All
types of video, audio, and printed media are prohibited by the
leadership unless they are affiliated with the cult.
An
example of information control from my past attendance at my cultic
alma mater was that women who lived on the college campus were not
allowed to leave the campus unless they had a group of three or four
females, in addition to an “approved girl.” This approved girl
was an upperclassmen, who had proved herself to the leadership as
loyal to the college. This “buddy system” ensured that the
innocent college girls were not exposed to outside influences.
Thought
Control
Cults
use thought control to internalize their doctrine as the one truth.
Black and white thinking is common. It’s either their way to heaven
or the high way to hell. An antagonist attitude prevails amongst the
members: the us versus them mentality.
Negative
thoughts about the group, the leaders, or the doctrine are not
tolerated. These thoughts are either of the devil or the members’
sinful nature. Therefore, they are to be suppressed through cult
techniques: chanting, meditating, prayer, evangelization, praising
God, speaking in tongues, singing, listening to sermons, or calling
an accountability friend.
An
example of thought control from my cult-church was the invitation
time after every sermon. Members were expected to respond to the
sermon by “going forward” or “walking the aisle” to “get
right with God.” If not enough members came forward, then the
pastor would verbally express his displeasure. He might be angry or
upset that members had not listened to the voice of God. He used the
altar calls as a cathartic reassurance of his “man of God”
status.
Emotional
Control
Cults
manipulate their members feelings about topics and identity. Members
are never perfect enough, no matter how much they change to fit the
cult’s “ideal member.” If there ever is a problem in a member’s
life, it is never the fault of the group ideology or the leadership.
It’s the individual’s fault every time.
In
the cult’s ideology, there is never a legitimate reason to leave
the group. Once a member has been inducted into the inner circle,
they are expected to meet cult expectations for the rest of their
lives and raise their children to do the same.
An
example of emotional manipulation from my former cult-pastor was that
he preached about his being chosen by God himself as our leader. If
we ever defamed him in any way, even if he sinned, God would strike
us down. God might even kill us and our children because we
“stretched out our hand against the man of God.” He told us
horror stories of people who God supposedly maimed and murdered
because they did not accept our pastor as God’s authority.
Final
Thoughts
Steve
Hassan,
the cult expert author, explains the vital aspect of cult mind
control.
“It
is important to understand that destructive mind control can be
determined when the overall effect of these four components promotes
dependency and obedience to some leader or cause. It is not necessary
for every single item on the list to be present. Mind controlled cult
members can live in their own apartments, have nine-to-five jobs, be
married with children, and still be unable to think for themselves
and act independently.”
Cults
are prevalent in our society, often cloaked beneath the guise of
mainstream religion. To determine whether or not a group is a
cult, use
the BITE Model above.
After leaving my cult, I actually recorded
an audio taping of the BITE method for
my personal use. I went through every point and gave an example of
how my prior church met the cult criteria. This solidified my
suspicion that my former church assuredly was (and still is) a cult.
What
say you? Have you ever experienced traits of a cult in a religious
group or secular organization? How did you leave that unhealthy
environment? I’d love to hear your stories. Just leave a comment
below.